When Sissies Go Bad: TheMaidStore & Birchplace

CW: Transphobia – Anti-VX – Bigotry

Birchplace is a XDressing & S*ssy Website that hosts SW profiles & has shared extreme far-right propaganda & transphobic nonsense

This video is a call to Boycott Birchplace/EBlue Network.

The Following Stores Sell Related Accessories Under The Birchplace Network. I Would Highly Recommend NOT Patronizing These Places!

They have lots of similar sites if you find a new one let me know!

TheMaidStore.comTheSissyStore.comSissyKissBoutique.comSissyKiss.comEBlue.com

You Can See Their Twitter Here: https://twitter.com/BirchPlace/likes

See My Video on Sophie Labelle & her Abuse Allegations here    • Sophie Labelle: D…  

Learn about Chloe Corrupt and how SA is ignored in the SW industry.    • How Abusers Keep …  

Thanks for watching friends, StayVigilant & StayKinky!!!

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80 Days Dancing

I have so much to say, but I’ll let my body do the talking 🙂

More soon friends, on the mend 🙂

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We Need To Talk About Sophie Labelle

Sophie Labelle is an comic artist best known for “Assigned Male” Comics & for using images of real children to make kink content (her words, not mine).

This video discusses her history of dodging her dodgy past & using Transphobia as a shield from valid accusations, her behaviour is upsetting regardless of gender or sexuality.

This is a statement to Sophie stating: “Sharing and/or Selling Provocative Images of Children Is Not Acceptable in the Trans, ABDL or ANY Community”

If you want to learn more about how ABDLs and P*dophilia is not correlated see this video –    • ABDL vs PREDATORS…  

If you want to learn more about why the separation between Knk & Minors is so important, see this video –    • Ageplay, Diapers …  

There’s a line where I say “her content is identical to ABDL content”, I should have included “EXCEPT that it features actual children”. ABDL art does not include children.

And Now, For The Evidence!

~ This is the big one, this pretty much covers it all, huge content warning ~

First, we have the TranssexualLiam Saga, basically some pretty ugly cartoons stereotyping and berating transmen, shows a history of evading responsibility.

The Following is her responses to being outed for creating Child Sexual Exploitation content. She allegedly creates images from real children and using childlike bodies as an attempt to groom children into being sexual with adults. I don’t explain it as well as EssenceOfThought (Best Bit Around 35:00 Mins) or smarter people , but basically creating sexual content with children and child like characters and inviting them into 18+ spaces like the ABDL community is a way to lower their defenses and teach them that being sexual with adults is in fact mature and good.

This is where she describes the backlash as “kink shaming” in which she explains how she “indulges” in these images, which really sounds like they are describing a sexual fetish and the pornography involved, but she stands by the statement that her interest in ABDL is entirely non-sexual. She claims they did not represent children (though they are clearly childlike bodies and do not represent adults, that’s why she traces 2-year olds to make them).

I spend all day in the “Littles” and ABDL community and we do not allow or condone or like art of children or childlike bodies in provocative situations and we sure as hell don’t involve kids in her art. She’s throwing the whole ABDL community under the bus to shield what are very clearly pedophilic desires being sold to other people with pedophilic desires. It’s a flimsy shield, but it works on other people playing the same game. It’s OK to show off my diapers in public because it’s non-sexual, it’s OK to talk to kids about diapers because it’s non-sexual, it’s OK to harass healthcare workers into changing them because it’s Non-Sexual! There are non-sexual ageplayers, Asexual folks, but there’s just as many using that as a shield to bother kids or non-consenting people.

Calling A Kink “Non-Sexual” Does Not

Mean You Can Involve Children!

I say pedophile because I can’t think of any other explanation for creating and selling images of children in a kink community like this, modifying the pics to be more sexual, adding exposed butts etc. There are non-sexual ageplayers, but Sophie seems to use the “SFW” label as a way to trojan horse child sexual abuse images into our community to groom minors, who she has significant access to from her touring. You have someone who is KNOWN as a creator of these kink/fetish images involving children going and teaching children about how great it is to be trans and how she’s a trusted trans adult they can confide in.

It’d be like if Kevin Spacey wrote books about the importance of a gay older mentor

It’d be like if Harvey Weinstein wrote a book on how to please a casting director

It’d be like if Marjorie Tailor Greene hosted your Bat Mitzvah

It’d be like if you let Jimmy Saville run your Daycare, it’s actually really like this.

You can’t let a predator have access to kids like that when they have not been held accountable. And creating those child sexual abuse drawings and selling them publicly in one hand while posing yourself as a childhood educator/trusted celebrity in the other is literally grooming. She knows the trans community crosses over heavily with ABDL, she knows Minors are heavily involved in the “SFW” littles scene online and the 18+ crowd is always having to emphasize “NO MINORS IN KINK”. But she is inviting them into her 18+ spaces, which she calls “SFW” but it’s all diaper change pictures etc. It’s in no way SFW unless your job is to draw sexually suggestive pictures of children, it’s just a label popular with Minors and Pedos. Again, there are SFW artists of note, but they don’t involve kids. Sophie Does.

If Sophie would respond to the allegations properly I might have a better word that Child Sexual Abuse Images & Pedophile, but she ignores and obfuscates instead of explaining herself. I have tried to speak to her personally on this, but she has not honesty in her communication, she just blames “the narrative” and ignores why people find her images so disturbing. This conversation was blood from a stone.

Long Story Short, Sophie Labelle is bad news, and I had to make because she’s touring again, and i’m tired of having to explain that transgender people are just as disgusted by her behavior as the TERFs and Bigots are. An Enemy of My Enemy Does Not Make Them My Friend, Trans people are not a single Borg-Like entity, we can hold our own accountable and we can tell the Jessica Yannivs and Caitlyn Jenners and Sophie Labelles who create havoc and hate towards trans folks for their own selfish means, we can tell them to fuck off, that these bad actors and their bad actions are not common or accepted in the Trans/Kink/Queer Community.

We call Shenanigan’s on you Sophie Labelle, I’m not the first transperson to make a video about you nor will I be the last. You have to address these allegations or they will continue to embarass you, the trans community & the spaces that host trans creators. When we spoke, all I asked was a linkable explanation to why you did it, why it was wrong or why you felt it was right. But instead you force your fans to interact with TERFs and bigots because you’re too much of a coward to properly address your sordid past. You’re harming your fans & are a black mark on the trans community, one that people like me have to constantly explain away. Tired of hearing “But What About Sophie Labelle?” when I say that trans people & ABDLs aren’t pedophiles.

It’s been a long history of people coming into the ABDL community with the impression that involves or is a safe space for child sexual abuse content, I don’t say “Porn” because I make “Porn” & what I do is not the same as what these monsters who make CSA content create. This post is another statement to those people that YOU DO NOT BELONG IN THIS COMMUNITY if you think interacting with children or sexuallizing children or being attracted to children is part of ABDL, it’s not & never will be. We must remain vigilant against “Cub Porn” and anything involving kids or childlike bodies, underage characters, stolen images etc. It’s not popular to call these things out, but it’s necessary for the health of this community and it’s members. So Do Better!

Thanks for reading friends. I hope Sophie thinks about who she’s harming, and realizes that decent people will never tolerate what she’s done. Let’s talk about it Sophie.

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Day 44!

I had posted some graphic pics and got locked out of this site for a little while :0 Sorry about the lack of updates, hopefully you have been checking out my Youtube! I have a retrospective coming soon 🙂 Thanks friends!

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Days 5!!

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72 Hours! DAILY Vlog 3

Doing Awesome!!!

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Daily Vlog #3 – 48 Hours Post

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Daily Vlog #2

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Daily Vlog # 1

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LetsGetSRS 39 – All About My Orchiectomy!!!

Hi there friends!!! I have the biggest news for you, a lifetime pursuit coming to fruition! I’m finally getting an Orchiectomy!

I have so much to say in the coming month, I will be going through some incredible changes and have some big feelings to share, but for now, let’s stick to the facts.

But first, “Cisgender” means “Not Transgender” & is used to distinguish between trans & non-trans folks.

Dysphoria in relation to trans people is the feeling of body incongruency, my brain map doesn’t understand my boy parts because I should have girl parts, so i’m dysphoric.

Gender Affirming Surgery is the new term for “Sex Change”. Sexual Orientation, i.e. gay/straight etc. is a separate conversation from Gender Identity, I’m Pansexual because that’s the closest label to not having a label, I’m sexually agnostic.

Sex & Gender are seperate, Sex is a Personal Clinical Classification, Gender is a Social Expression. Sex is XX/XY, Gender is skirts or slacks. Gender wise, Cisgender Men & Trans Men are the same gender, Men, but don’t have the same Sexual Characteristics. Sexual Characteristics do not inform gender and Sex really only matters when it comes to private medical needs, Ciswomen need cervical cancer screenings, Transwomen need prostate exams.

Ok, we’re all glossaried up? Here we go, The Who What Where How & Why of my Orchi!

Who: I’m Riley Kilo, I was born in 1986 in Northern California, started taking hormones in 2009, you can watch me take my first pill on this channel! , I do video production, I go by She/Her pronouns, and I really like pastels, kink, sad movies and making food for friends.

What: An Orchiectomy is the removal of the testicles, it’s a 30 min Outpatient surgery performed by a Urologist. Nothing changes about my genitals outside of testicle removal, no skin will be removed.

They basically make an incision on the line running up the line of one’s sac and then remove the testicles, they use dissolving stitches and there’s a post-office visit but otherwise it’s a one & done situation. There are possible complications outside of the usual surgery stuff, but many of them can be resolved quickly, I am very healthy and shouldn’t have issues. I’ll go home the night of the surgery, be off my feet for about 48 Hours and limited lifting for about 2-4 weeks after that. Friends say healing is easy biz and it’s not too painful, more uncomfortable. Going to eat some weed gummies and watch a bunch of Baki, i’ll be back and editing in a few days.

Where & How: Outpatient Surgery Center, Doctor came highly recommended. They had an opening so the appointment came up super quick, I thought it was more like 6 weeks or months, not 6 days away. But i’m ready, less anticipation!

I am getting my insurance sorted and hopefully that will cover most of it. I may have to pay out of pocket which I think I can handle, you see I live by the beat, if people don’t buy my content, then I don’t eat, but thankfully people have been really supportive and I should be able to front this one my own. I’ve asked so much over the years so i’m not doing the big GoFundMe campaign thing or anything, I have this covered thanks to viewers like you :):) Orchi’s are more in the 2 Grand & 2 weeks area vs the more 20 grand & 2 months area of a vaginoplasty. Plus, being completely honest here, but vaginas take alotta maintenance and I might just be too irresponsible for that at this moment, same reason why I don’t have a cat.

Here’s the big one:

Why:

While I was growing up, I was small, sensitive and had a very high voice, very few people mistook me for a boy.

I started growing breasts when I was 12 years old, I hit puberty VERY late around 15 and it hit me hard, I grew 6 inches taller and became very sexually engaged, I had a lot of awkward teenage sex. Near-constant Erections, huge hormone swings, so much hair, issues with controlling my emotions & temper, normal teenage stuff for cisgender people, but very confusing for a young girl. While other boys were climbing and running in their bodies, I was scared and confused in mine, I swam with a shirt on, I didn’t like being touched or hugged. I just felt so wrong. I still feel this way, but hormones and gender expression have helped me feel much better.

As a teen I started ID’ing as gay because I didn’t know what trans was. I knew I didn’t want boy parts, I knew I enjoyed them, but they’re just not right, like eating an offbrand oreo.

And that’s because, simply, I’m a trans person with a clinical need for transition as way to manage dysphoria. My mental map does not match my body map, and while I am happy with my female gender expression, my doctors and I agreed on a need hormonal & surgical intervention to fix this incongruency. The testicles produce Testosterone, so instead of continuing to take T inhibiting drugs (raising my risk of blood clot etc) i’m just removing the source of T as well as improving my quality of life by removing parts that I feel and have always felt, do not belong. I also suffer from constant, troublesome erections, and while post-op I’ll be able to still (maybe) get erections and ejaculate, etc, sex without testosterone is much more honest & desirable to me, and I am sure it will be even more so without the balls.

Someday I may get full sexual reassignment surgery but I don’t have the time, money or confidence to do that, I have never had a surgery or been in the hospital so I am very nervous, getting a vaginoplasty would be too much for me. I’m a scared little girl to be honest, but staying very strong for myself and my friends who will be supporting me through recovery.

I wrote about a dozen paragraphs for this part but that’ll be it’s own video on what I think about trans people, sex, gender, non-binary identities etc. Spoiler alert, I love anyone expressing their unique selves and believe there is plenty of room in the trans rainbow.

So final thoughts, and we’re about to get mushy, this means everything to me. This is the most important thing I’ve ever done for myself and every day of my life has been leading up to this. I am not a person who cries, but I have been on the verge of crying since getting the call about this.

Those walls around my heart I talk about, the insecurity, fear of rejection, inability to feel loved etc… those bricks are made from bullying and a rough childhood and sexual abuse, but they’re held together by testosterone. With hormones and self-love, I have been healing more everyday and each single moment I spend as my authentic, congruent, vibrant self, is a step towards peace. I am so happy to finally be here, to finally put myself first, not my Sex Work Clients or my Lovers, or my subscribers or fans, but to do something for me, to stop delaying and take action and continue growing, blossoming and living life deliciously.

Thanks for listening Friends! Daily Blog Starts Tomorrow on Transcaping.com and My Various Social Medias!!! Thanks and happy hugs!!!

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